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Guys should foc...Heh. Actually, I agree with you.<br /><br />Guys should focus on going places they'd have fun even if they had no chance of hooking up with a girl. For a large percentage of guys, I'd say clubs are the worst place for that.<br /><br />But some guys genuinely do enjoy clubbing. They are also the guys who meet and date club girls. Common interests and all that.<br /><br />-Dirkdirkmanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05973576611495754605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225928528863611514.post-7897808340557489602010-08-20T00:48:07.879-07:002010-08-20T00:48:07.879-07:00I may be an exception to the rule, but I've ac...I may be an exception to the rule, but I've actually made a specialty out of dating girls I met in clubs ... but they tend to be 80s-themed or alternative clubs where the girls are more my type. Plus, I actually like to dance, so the venue suits me well.<br /><br />But of course a guy can meet all the girls he needs in the day, as well. Girls are girls, wherever you find them.GKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12783084684220417769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225928528863611514.post-67502946248037355612010-08-19T02:30:25.639-07:002010-08-19T02:30:25.639-07:00Yeah, club girls are hot, and flaky pains in the a...Yeah, club girls are hot, and flaky pains in the asses. But that goes for the ugly girls in the club too.<br /><br />I think trying to pick up girls in clubs is one of the worst things a guy can do.<br /><br />He'd have much better luck with the exact same girls if he were to try to pick them up in a different environment.dirkmanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05973576611495754605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225928528863611514.post-72548175308473846312010-08-17T18:24:45.726-07:002010-08-17T18:24:45.726-07:00I may have been one of those former CA instructors...I may have been one of those former CA instructors mentioned at the top. If you're talking about the kind of hot, 20-something girls we see at bars and clubs who are wearing sexy clothing, makeup and trendy hairstyles and partying it up, I would say yes -- those girls tend to be high maintenance and flaky. But then there are beautiful women who wear exercise clothes and no makeup and watch DVDs on Saturday night. They might not be such a pain. <br /><br />As Dirk has wisely said many times, know yourself and know what you want. Then you'll know if you want to handle those pain-in-the-ass (but also hot-in-the-ass) girls.GKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12783084684220417769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225928528863611514.post-5413124026339935052010-08-06T12:21:54.054-07:002010-08-06T12:21:54.054-07:00Fear of rejection and fear of disapproval are how ...Fear of rejection and fear of disapproval are how others react to you, ie what they think of you. You really have to stop giving a shit what anyone thinks and just do what you want.<br /><br />See that hot girl and wish you could talk to her? Just go do it and let the conversation come out however it does. Then go for the close no matter how it goes.<br /><br />Like you saw at your job, it's just a matter of asking. You didn't have to be any more charming or witty. You just had to ask or tell.<br /><br />The only one who can and should motivate you into getting girls, is you. No one else cares whether you get laid or not or find your dream girl(s) (and quit think of her as a dream girl, no more fantasies for the time being).<br /><br />If you want to go to the mall to approach, fine. Or if you see a hot patient, ask her out. Or if you're in the cafeteria getting lunch, and you see a cutie, get her number. Closing is flirting. Closing is connecting. If you want to flirt, ask her out. If you want to build rapport and connect with her, ask her out.<br /><br />Closing separates the interested ones from the uninterested. Man up, my friend. Quit putting so much pressure on yourself to succeed in getting the girl and focus on going after her instead.dirkmanleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05973576611495754605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8225928528863611514.post-8809241257109047212010-08-06T04:07:43.206-07:002010-08-06T04:07:43.206-07:00"What others think may be what's holding ..."What others think may be what's holding you back from taking action and getting what you want in the first place."<br /><br />I think it's fear of rejection, or fear of being disapproved of.<br /><br />My job is to register patients in an emergency room. I've done the job for eight years and only recently have felt more comfortable about it.<br /><br />I notice every once in awhile, someone will decline to answer one of my demographics questions (What's your religion? Where were you born? etc.) and I'd actually get butt hurt that they wouldn't answer my questions.<br /><br />Reminds me of the feeling, of my fear of being rejected by a woman.<br /><br />Hell, another comparison at my job is collecting insurance copays. I used to fear asking people for money (Boo hoo, they wont like me, because I'm asking them for money at the ER.). Eventually our collection totals went into our performance reviews and I had to ask more, or get written up. <br /><br />I started asking for copays and eventually my fear of disapproval surrounding it, dramatically subsided.<br /><br />Now I hardly care. "You have a copay are you able to pay it today?" Hell, sometimes I just say they have a copay and look expectantly at them, until they get the hint I want their money.<br /><br />Unfortunately I don't have a boss motivating me to approach women I'm interested in, like these copay collections.<br /><br />This evening I went to the mall to approach women and ended up approaching no one. I just psyched myself out, with thoughts of "I'm here to pick up chicks and that's odd, or wrong". I didn't calm down until I was thirty minutes in, to watching Inception again, at the malls movie theater.<br /><br />I appreciate your last two blog posts, in response to my recent queries. I've come to a new era. I used to never approach and constantly wait for that one last CA forum post, that was going to magically explain all my fears away and make me indestructible.<br /><br />Now I've turned inwards. I'm journaling more. Thinking about my history and what I want. What I did, or didn't do in the past and why. Mental masturbation I guess.<br /><br />I recently passed Beginning Algebra in summer school (The first time I've advanced in math since the fourth grade). I did so, I believe, because I have finally decided to pursue my childhood dream of becoming a paleontologist. One of the reasons that I think persuaded me, was because my mother and brother told me to go for it.<br /><br />As a child there were conflicts with my love of dinosaurs and my mother’s views of Christianity and I think I decided way back then, that if my dreams wouldn't be supported, then to hell with school.<br /><br />Now I'm looking to what's holding me back from finding my dream woman. Family, peer pressures, or am I just shy?<br /><br />:)) There's my drop a bomb post. The last several months, I've cut back on my questions to you, because frankly, what I’ve learned from you, usually makes me mentally slash any of the excuses I come up with fairly quickly. The only sober approach I’ve done was back in June, during summer school. To be continued…<br /><br />-EE.I.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05862173853716279893noreply@blogger.com